Tuesday, May 10, 2011

My Titles - No Princess Isn't One of Them



Well in the most technical terms I have never officially been a princess.  But it got me to thinking about all the different titles in my life --

October 8, 1955 - daughter, grand-daughter, niece, cousin.
September 5, 1959 - sister
in the 60's - friend
September 1961  - student
October 8, 1968 - teenager
in the 70's - girlfriend
August 1971 - employee
June 1973 - graduate
October 8, 1974 - adult
June 1978 - fiance
April 7, 1979 - wife, sister-in-law, daughter-in-law
August 24, 1980 - mother
February 1, 2001 - widow
October 18, 2008 - wife (again)
April 29, 2011 - grandmother

The one that is missing is Aunt -- I am an Aunt through marriage but will never officially be an aunt.  I hope to never be a widow again and I hope I remain a daughter for a few more years - but I think there are other forces more powerful than my wishes that won't let that happen.

I can't allow that to cloud my utter joy of being a grandmother -- sometime in the future I hope to hear him say it  -- whatever it comes out sounding like.

3 comments:

  1. We are less than 3 months difference in age (i'm 12/31)!

    I can feel your joy, pride and happiness just bursting at the seams!

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  2. Looking forward to adding grandmother to my titles at some stage in the future. No pressure on my children though, it's entirely up to them if/when they decide.
    Meantime, going to create my own list of titles.

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  3. Great titles! You will love when your little one calls you grandma!

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